Problema conectare remote mysql database

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Am o problema cu conectarea la remote mysql database , adica vreau sa conectez serverul la baza de date de pe alt host . Pe localhost merge serverul , dar cand bag pe remote nu se conecteaza . Hostul l-am pus ip-ul de la webhost dar si domeniu.ro ( mentionez ca am pus ip-ul bun ) , DB si user si acelea sunt bine puse ( au prefix gen domeniu_ ) am pus cu si fara prefix si tot nu merge.

Care poate fi problema ?

[heker]

ce scrie in mysql_log ?

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[12:56:18] MySQL Debugging activated (08/06/11)

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[12:56:18] >> mysql_connect( )

[12:56:18] CMySQLHandler::CMySQLHandler() - constructor called.

[12:56:18] CMySQLHandler::CMySQLHandler() - Connecting to "IP" | DB: "domeniu_rpg" | Username: "domeniu_xcite" ...

[12:56:39] CMySQLHandler::Connect() - Can't connect to MySQL server on 'IP' (10060) (Error ID: 2003)

[12:56:39] >> mysql_ping( Connection handle: 1 )

[12:56:39] CMySQLHandler::Ping() - You cannot call this function now. (Reason: Dead Connection)